Are Indian youths conservative or liberal?
07.06.2025 03:16
Women are given too much rights, what need was to give them reservation in trains ? Don’t go out of house if not emergency lol.
And some boys have reported caught saying more stranger things :
Why kids voluntarily choose such paths, suppose you have to do a big battle for small small needs or wishes in life ? You would cwrtainly give up at some poibt as not all have strength to keep going. That’s what hapoens with moat most of them, if they do a slightly small thing as good as making or innivating a new recipe can get them schooled and taunted, they may rebel in childhood, in adolescence, as burden of family respinsibilities incraese they get tired of balancing responaibilities also while having to rebel for small small choices in life and they give up and decide to go parents way since they have also got ‘conditioned’ with mentality of ‘Self image and balne shifting’ that they see around since they grow up, doing what is ordered by parents blindly may lead them to failure sometimes but by escaping own misery by blame shifting on parents that ‘You chose this for me’ they convince ownsepces somehow, they learn to ve submsiisve cowards like this after many years of such conservative upbringing and teaching of filial peity within family systems.
I have seen many city girls around 17 or 18 in colleges in big city like Mumbai, who found certain behaviours of my feme friend as ‘Dashing, extra or not so lady like’ and those things were - calling a waiter to clean dining table n give extra plate, telling a man that he is sitting on ladies seat in bus, or asking a bus conductor from depot about which bus to board in a new town. These are not rocket sciences or extra skills , these are ‘Vyavhar gyaan’ or practical sense every human being need to be in outside environment not just girl. But, strange that even genz girls of college communities found these attitude as ‘Not so girl or womanly’., but ‘ as something dashing or outapoken. Most girls could not initiate these actions in urgent needs even. And yes, most times parents did not send girls even for simple outings with female friends like visiting a museum or public gamesh or diwali fest and then eating out or visiting beach n coming back , etc. Even in mumbai. And sometimes reluctantly sent if a boy student or some girl’s brother or father was accompanying , and also expecting that ‘Planning or itinerary and taking out to places all works’ should be initiated and managed by the guy, not girls, girls just merely go behind their ‘Guidances and orders’ and giggle , enjoy and eat food to pass time together that is all a girl can do. But this also rarely happen, most parents compel a girl to ask ‘Permission’ from them to even go to some family friendly or fantasy sci fi movie in daylight crowd theatres or take their pet to a vet just next street only, or visit a park mearby for solo strolling or pet walking, etc. which also they mostly did not permit girls to do by themselves, while boys just ‘Inform’ and parents willingly engage in communication to give sons ‘Ideas’ of how yo do those stuff what they are going to. Maybe , such behaviour makes girls unaware or maybe aware but ‘Fearful and unskilled’ of basic outside survival skills like asking a conductor about bus schedules when new to a town, booking tickets , Planning budget, to confidently telling a man to get up from ladies seat and let the girls sit instead! And depend on a boy , brothers or that ‘weirdo confidemt woman in group’ who initiates ‘Practical’ descisions like a guy.
Most youth bribe gods, for getting a job offer, youth girls still may get a thought of ‘what if i did fast of haritalika’ to gain luck of getting my boyfriend obly as my husband (IK lovers are unsafe and have most chances that their parents won’t regard their love as serious or marry them, but just fasting and singing hymns won’t solve your problems, you need actual work to be done to solve ir right), youth might fast to end ‘Saade Saati’ to get a promotion to young married women willingly taking risky ‘Hormonal contraceptive pills’ in secrecy to delay periods to sit for a temple worship festival not as a tool to family plan tho.
You know the college had no control, totally worse. Shameless and mean girls came there, wearing skirts , skinny jeans, sluts.
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Now lets change scenario, I have seen many youngster boys around who felt that cleaning, sweeping and or cooking dish and serving men was something that sisters should do as a thumb rule but did not think they should know these skills as a thumb tule too. If parents aren’t at home, he may eat wafers, sit on chairs or sofa and watch netflix or tv match, while their sisters prepare as soon as maggi noodles to boiled milk or premix juices for them, and serve it to them. While thdy do not bother to take feedback on has she eaten and qjenched thirst well? They are simply busy in own routines snd a second thought about it does not strike their minds, the sister may get tired due to stress, overload, work or education load or period blood loss, but she does all the house works from lifting utensil to washing in cold water to filling handwash bottles to mother- like caring a child at home, while getting no enough time to rest, sleep or pacify own hunger pains. The brothers might spill handwash or use in excess reducing yhe handwash in bottle, may spill water on tables, throw belkngings like their underwears , Towels book here n there while their sisters may rearrange it for them. The brother may all of a sudden just ‘Inform’ sister and go to extra lecture or sometimes to a movie with freinds in disguise, go for walks, or on syroll with friends while sister clean house time to time and sister is reluctant to go out like that with a friend to eat out since she fears who will cook, clean mess, fold garments, water plants n saplings in her absense since brothers do none of these, and fun fact who will open door for her when she come back since boys are busy playing games in bedroom? , And she more commonly fears scold from mother n father. Because in such situations, parents mostly lash out at girl for not taking care of house, not scanning underlying reaaona of what she could have found difficult, and may dismiss her plea to make brother involved in house chores saying , ‘He is immature or he has more important works, but why are you doing melodrama, you are mature to know your work of maintaining the home right? Your brother can’t do it so you have to, yet you fail in your main field too?
What is marriage scene ? Youngsters stipp see love relationships as a ‘Daring, an unusual thrill and risk’, and mostly lack all concepts of ‘Negotiations, responsibility in loving somebody or seeing love as a commitment’ when they lack family supports. Most unmarried even earning adults, even those who do not live with parents for job puprose (including all heterosexual adults as well as lgbtq) even those who are in 20s in 2023 still chose to not fight for their love and themselves abandon love interest, and then go to trdaitional family elders or marriage bureaus to find them a spouse, and marry a stranger who is often selected by their oarebts influences n pressures , how are these matches chosen ?- Not based on deeply exploring each other’s individual compatibility in nature, views, interactions and red or green flags, compatibility of family’s ideologies and upbringing and future plans, etc.’ But the spouse selected for them by their parents based on 36 gunas, horoscopes and zodiac sign and gotra and ganas matched, caste or subcaste, if they are from minor religions then religion amd sub sects or congregations matched, and made the boy and girl to exhibit ‘Socially constructed marriage roles’ to prove that they are good matches for a good traditional wedlock, then they get engaged by their oarents soon just in a month and next months a wedding, and soon in hurry the elders make them consummate within a year of marriage with a less known spouse, and have a first born within a year or two of marriage, where husband and wife do not decide they are ready to parenting or not. This was in parents and grandparents era!? But wait stipl youth of today get married the same way their grandparents did, sometimes they voluntarily choose the path also. The woman voluntarily puts expectations like the groom should own big car, and own house and feed me, and man mentions expectations that she should be tall, fair fair skinned, feminine and homely. The youth who are going to get married in 2020 to ahead years okay ! And yes, many of tgese people’s marriage ads are still posted in newspaper sections by their parents as ‘A girl available for marriage, born in 2001, xxx caste, wheatish skin tone but still a bit fair, medium ‘Body shape or stature, 165cm. Height, mba, can take care of house, she dreamt since childhood to go to america hence need a nri groom who can take her to live there after her marriage, she has all her sisters married in noble families, unmarried brother who works in google, the girl knows to cook good food, wants an NRI groom from Americas , wealthy earning 16 lcs package, no sibling to him, owns a car, a house, same caste, and will inherit good property etc. (This was one ad I came across for a mba grad girl who dreamt to visit america, whose parents wanted her to get married, so maybe they put her ad for a prince charming like wealthy salary earning man to take a mba grad as his homely wife and show her sunlight of America).
You would see following dialogues in some boys but may not see in girls - “ Man up, dude, why are you hesitating to propose your crush, you are a boy, you should do all these romantic things naturally, be a man. Go tell her what you feel about her and lol fool her with your cheesy or flirty words that she cannot resist you. Haha, how will he ‘Perform it’ in future if he is acting like foolish women, reserved actions, now only.
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90% Indians do not take a single life decision on own ‘Analysis’ of pros and cons, and instead rely on parents, whuoe their parents also do not take the child’s decisions based on pros and cons but instead based on old world ‘Social constructs or even newer blind trends that come with herds or mobs as mob mentality’.eg. many kids who were in 10th board or matric grade in 2023 still a vast amount of them have admitted to big cram tuitions that train them for giving IIT JEE or such engineering exams and remaining many have been admitted to compete for NEET to go in medical field, whether they find it easy to study those subjects or not, but they are there now. Wasn’t this the concept during your daddy era? It is still there and most kids still go to same path after matric exams as their parental genertion had to do. Only difference is aome parents now force their daughter to become engineers too, after herd mentality has changed from only boy is engineer, to unisex engineering admissions. But brainwashing kids to choose between parent selected limited pools is still a constant, no matter engibeering fielfld now has unemployment uncertainties, logic does not work while choosing career, herd and culture works.
He is mama’s boy , fully feminine., etc.
Not just about socially constructed marriage-centric gender roles in conservative cultures, but the youngsters critically lack scientific temper and a habit of ‘Not settling, and constantly trying to improve’ also. This is because they are so engrossed in own culture and its symbolism that they fair to notice ongoing changing innovations across world. Also, as they were never conditioned to think ‘Independantly’ instead taught to accept whatever trend comes along in a herd, they alao develop a herd mentality and do not have idea that other sides might exist.
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OR “ Show me you pemis size, is it big or small, if its big that means you are a man huh!”
They are what they are exposed to., what they learn from it, what they observed majorly around them in other people plus own family groups since childhood, what things concepts or thoughts they are exposed to, what actions became their habits, their self trust n inner intuition n upbringing.
What’s wrong in traditional roles, and dowry lol, if marriage lasts long and love is there, then who makes fuss whether dowry was invopved or not? Like men earn so much money and take hard work of taking respinsibility of a woman then why not woman pay them for it. (Woman no matter how much educated is seen still as man’s dependant or responsibility to feed and take care like a baby)
OR “ Come on man up, at least one cigar , champ ! How can you be afrqud to try adventurous. Smoking is a Man’s trait, do it come on.
There are still some states in India, where medical textbooks have mentions of or chapters including lessons teaching about ‘HYSTERIA’ especially in women, when this concept was purely pseudo sceintific and misogynistic traditional with no evidence during victorian european era , just to symbolise any ‘Weird behaving person whose behaviour they could not study or to label women with mood swings related to periods troubles as ‘Crazy or hysterical’, but after so many years, even No neither Indian students , nor professors and not even general folks realise ban of ‘Concept of hysteria’ and world debates going on its authenticity, since they just once they accept a concept from ‘Powerful entity’ like a ruler or anything just promote it as a ‘Moral value’ without questioning back and as they are engrosses in own daily circles amd culture, disconnected from intellectual discussions across internet, they never may some across such knowledgeable discussions at all.
This still happen in new generation young brother n sisters.
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And you would see open ad banners in trains, walls, and everywhere “ Fortune teller service for young spirits. If you have love problems , marriage fixing delays, children are out of control, seggs problems, infertility problems or want to convince parebts for a love marriage?’ Contact xxxx baba today only’.
You would see ‘Discussions’ like these among girls of young generation but not in boys of same generation, - What what items can you cook? Oh you are so skillful that you can handle whole kitchen, wow, Haha my mom scolds me because I cannot make much food excwpt tea or coffee or glucon d (a sugar drink), and taunts me what will my future mother in law sarcasm about ‘My upbringing’ to my mom. Lol’, OR ‘Hey, girls life is bad because of periods, periods are so bad, so embarassing, i hope boys should have got it instead of girls, why god curse women in humans with these mess? TO “ You know I cannot come to temple trip tommorrow, since my dates are there’, (They are ashamed to say word periods, so they say dates of month), another girl asking ‘But how can you belive in absurd things, oo come on its 21st century’, First girl- “It’s okay my end term exams are coming, and I don’t want to invite bad luck by visiting holy temple during my such dirty time of month’. OR ‘ You are really a weird girl I have met ever in my life, you do wear baggy pants with big pockets and keep mobile in pockets, you use big checkered handkerchiefs instead of ladies ones, not ashamed to wear spectacles, you can talk to strangers boldly, you scold rikshawala if he charge more, you can locate destination on google maps and on top of that OMG, you are planning to propose your love feelings to your crush classmate? Omg girls do not confess and propose, becays ethey are GIRLS, I envy you, your talents , because I can never imagine me there, you have boyish aura. (The reality was that friend of me, liked wearing pants with big pockets where she can keep smal small stuff to avoid mess in small handbag, secondly she had sinus trouble and runny nose default so big handkercheif was a practically first preference what’s wrong?, she was confident girl amd she knew not using specs despite poor visions can cause her old age catarct so she was ‘AWARE AND SMART’ , and that she just knew that nothing should be kept in mind , if you love somebody you should propose or confess, that was all natural for her, but not for other female friends of her. ) Other girls of same youth ages thinking these basic human things as weird for a female human was conservatism right. And you won’t see the cooking , cleaning discussions among boys.